Sometimes in life you encounter strange things. One day you will have that dream you could have sworn was real, one day you’re going to be walking and a $20 bill will magically blow in your direction, and one day you will hear Susan Boyle sing. I’ve never seen anything like that in my life. It was the equivalent of seeing a spaceship hover above my apartment. For those of you who do not know Susan, “Ms. Boyle seemed to be merely a frumpy 47-year-old unemployed church volunteer who lived alone with her cat, Pebbles, and had, she said, “never been kissed.” These are generally the symptoms of a complete wack job, but as soon as she opened her mouth, she literally shocked the world. I have fallen victim to stereotyping. It feels terrible, but I know I am the culprit. I grouped Susan into the category of “wack job” without ever meeting her, getting to know her, or anything. It was clear fundamental attribution error on my part. I underestimated the impact of situations on Susan’s lifestyle and singing ability. Susan is not the exception. Stereotyping is ingrained in our lives through a combination of cognitive, sociocultural, and motivational factors. We all do it. If you see someone in a Bentley, you assume they’re rich and vice-versa. Click on the youtube link above and close your eyes. I guarantee you will be surprised (if you haven't seen her) and if you are like me, feel disappointed in yourself.
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